And after many more meetings, when we both felt confident enough about our future to discuss our respective pasts, we compared notes on dating.“Women seem to be very keen on height and good grammar,” mused by boyfriend.Don’t let this kind of distorted thinking get in the way of meeting someone really great.Some of the kindest, strongest and most committed men I know are short.According to Malcolm Gladwell, as well as being predominately white and male, apparently CEOs are almost all tall. Reddit has a page called r/short where over 20,000 members discuss things like ‘heightism’ and the difficulties of dating as a short guy.
I also want to know if he’s a good listener and if he talks well about his friends or family because he should already have some good, close interpersonal relationships.
Check out this equation: Dating Short Men = Uphill Battle. I haven’t conducted a study of my own on the subject, but I can assure you that scores of women of every type will say they simply aren’t attracted to short men.
Decoded, this equation refers to the tough time many short men have trying to find a romantic partner because some women won’t date someone shorter than they are. If you push them, they will hedge a bit: “I don’t know why, I’m just not.” As a psychologist, it’s not my job or place to be mean-spirited or hurtfully blunt, but it is my job to tell it like it is in reality.
Sexual attraction largely derives from your upbringing.
What’s interesting about my client, Alexis, is that she had it wrong when it comes to her attitude about short men.