I started talking to head-hunters, who were impressed with me. I felt so confident that I even upped my asking salary. And, having a job already or a bird in the hand gave me hand. As I continued dating locally, I never had the feeling that the girl I was pursuing was the only girl I could get, because I had a bird in hand.While I came across well in interviews, I think my best asset was that I didn't need a new job, I just wanted one. In recent relationships, I have found the same thing occurring. As a result, I was never desperate or selling myself short.Newbie translation: "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" = A girl who you maintain a relationship with and therefore demonstrates that you have value is worth more than simply believing you have value and that there's lots of fish in the sea.
So, basically, how do I stop being desperate, or something, or better yet, how do I turn into a machine?I don't know how to pretend to be something I'm not, I mean, if I care about someone, I care about them, I don't treat them like any other person because I don't treat them like any other person, I don't treat my friends like any other person. How does a guy go about getting a girlfriend without being desperate? How does a guy stop trying too hard, stop being desperate to get a girlfriend? Afraid of risking a broken heart, or looking inappropriate to the innocent passerby, it’s easy to avoid friendships that could very well be the foundation of finding a future mate.Take off the pressure of getting married, and be open to making friends.