Check out our new podcast, I Want It That Way, which delves into the difficult and downright dirty parts of a relationship, and find more on our Soundcloud page.There are plenty of good reasons for setting the bar high when it comes to dating, especially as we transition out of our early 20s. We’re busier; we have less time to spend meeting new people.I didn’t want to mention it for the same reason that Tom didn’t want to mention it in his profile: because it’s irrelevant to anything that makes him a good accountant, husband, or father.Yet his height defines him, since it has prevented otherwise interested women from being interested in him over the course of his entire life.Whether it’s a defense mechanism to avoid dating someone or simply a strict code of what one wants, realistic or not, it can happen. It was so detailed that it included bands that my potential mate had to like in order for me to even consider going on a date with them.
Whether it’s their job, where they went to school, or how they wear their hair, everyone and anyone is wrong for you, in your humble opinion.
If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident.
Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. We renamed him “Look Ma No Hair.” And we watched as his in-box filled up with interested women.
It’s not only a sign that you’re too picky, but that you’re holding out for something that isn’t very likely to happen.
Friends are great for a million reasons and one of them is that they call you out on your bullsh*t.